- Encourage problem solving. Give children the opportunity to figure out resolutions to their conflict. Pose the question, “What can we do about this?”
- Reinforce Positive Behavior. When children are playing together, try to catch them engaging in appropriate behavior. Comment on how nice it was that they shared the buckets or that they took turns with the big shovel.
- Use “Feeling” Words to Describe Another Child’s Response. A few bumps in the road, even during a successful playdate, is normal. Use those moments as opportunities to teach your child about compassion and his friend’s feelings. The vocabulary of emotions takes practice. You might say, “Parker is crying. He must be sad. I think he might be sad that you grabbed that shovel out of his hand while he was playing. What do you think would make him feel better?”
- Give Feedback. As your child learns to make new friends, he may be unsure of what to do all the time. Reassure him with a smile or a nod of your head to encourage appropriate behavior.
- Make Time for Your Child to Play. Everything improves with practice, and that includes the skill of making friends. Provide your child with many opportunities to interact with other children—at the library, during play dates, with his siblings and on the playground.
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